Whenever I attend an celebration for a close friend or family member - a bar mitzvah, a wedding, or an important birthday party - I try to mark the occasion with the "right" outfit. I try to find something that reflects my relationship with that person, the people who will be invited, and the location and tone of the event. I want my outfit to show how excited I am for the event and often buy a new outfit so I can remember them whenever I wear the outfit. I don't think I could ever articulate what I was looking for before I arrive at the store but somehow I always "feel" that my selection is "just right" and arrive at the event excited to begin the celebration.
I sometimes tell this story to students who are trying to sift through dozens of career options as they plan their first job search. The decision feels important and consequential and they want to make a start choice. I try to help them reflect on different experiences they’ve had as a student leader, in internships and from their own research to identify fields of work, functional roles, and modes of working that they feel they would enjoy and that are well suited to their skills and personality.
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